tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16438008.post6238669804852407963..comments2023-10-25T10:47:16.736-04:00Comments on Indigo Bubbles: Basking in MaskingAshinihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17634270926867263175noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16438008.post-55565931593774234022007-09-09T07:50:00.000-04:002007-09-09T07:50:00.000-04:00Zen: I have some friends who are into photography ...Zen: I have some friends who are into photography and have seen really nice pictures - catching loved ones off guard, laughing or simply reflective state. My daughter loves to 'strike her pose' so I take an average of 10 pictures and keep talking to her until I get a natural photo and see the face I see when there's not a camera around.<BR/><BR/>VGR: "Stories" is a good word, but I do think Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16438008.post-72897777672073388312007-09-08T13:53:00.000-04:002007-09-08T13:53:00.000-04:00Personally, I'm not a fan of candid shots but I se...Personally, I'm not a fan of candid shots but I see your point.ZenDenizenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14005775186817411944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16438008.post-12612712021225942662007-09-08T12:06:00.000-04:002007-09-08T12:06:00.000-04:00I find it more useful to think in terms of stories...I find it more useful to think in terms of stories rather than personas. We don't place constructions on our personalities so much as we place constructions on our histories. The way we tell our stories to ourselves (and when drunk and in the company of a trusted person for many hours, to others) are the real source of the self-describing comments we make to ourselves.<BR/><BR/>So I wouldn't Venkathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08952767804488611897noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16438008.post-18782966711886419002007-09-06T22:08:00.000-04:002007-09-06T22:08:00.000-04:00Anonymous - Ahh..but the question is WHO is your r...Anonymous - Ahh..but the question is WHO is your real self? Do you really know?? <BR/><BR/>TAAMom - I think what you described is something that comes with age. We start to stop trying to please others and express ourselves more. I think it's also a matter of risk -- how much do you stand to lose by saying 'no'? Do you risk a friendship b/c you say no? When you're older, you realize a friendship Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16438008.post-47403319115341868032007-09-06T21:58:00.000-04:002007-09-06T21:58:00.000-04:00Awesome thoughts, things we have in our mind but n...Awesome thoughts, things we have in our mind but not necessarily verbalize or internalize to ourselves or others - i mean the things you've said. <BR/><BR/>For example, i would never have enough courage to say 'no' to people, that i have worked it into my personality now to say 'no' and mean 'no' and now i have suddenly become this brave personality that i nor others love anymore cuz i'm saying 'Radhika Shivaramanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07163335373213645422noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16438008.post-22021705700493883012007-09-06T21:53:00.000-04:002007-09-06T21:53:00.000-04:00hmmm food for thought ! it is simpler to be yourse...hmmm food for thought ! it is simpler to be yourself.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com